Traded in 11 Pro Max for 11 Pro last night. Moving on...
Interestingly the customer rep said that women often want to buy or move UP to the Max, because they are used to carrying the phone in their purses, wheras men often want to by or move DOWN to the regular size, because they are used to carrying in the pocket!
I‘m a woman and I have the 11 Pro. Whilst I do carry my phone in my handbag, I have tiny hands so I feel like I would drop the Pro Max lots. Maybe most women have big hands.