I bought my phone so I can baby the battery so when I sell it next year the new owner has the best possible battery. NO
And you know who else besides Apple doesn't want the phone to last for ever? ME that's who. I want a new phone with latest technology, speeds and features next year.
I bought the phone to use it, not worry over the battery life. Because my anecdotal experience tells me I have never had an issue with battery since my 3GS.
Not saying your are theoretically wrong, I have read the battery tech specs and you are absolutely right, never go low, never go high, keep battery at between 50 and 60% charging 10% increments and you will make battery last almost 10 times as long.
I and most other iPhone users don't want to live that way. So we charge however we want, secure in knowing Apple design keeps us from rapidly destroying battery. And living with the one, two, and three year battery life we will get.