So when Steve Jobs quoted Pablo Picasso in saying "Good artists copy, great artists steal." Was he saying that it's ok for Apple to steal, so long as no one else steals from Apple?
No. That quote is taken out of context all the time. It speaks to how the past is often inspiration for the future. I don't think either Steve Jobs or Pablo Picasso would have taken kindly to having their intellectual property outright stolen or infringed by someone else. Picasso's estate and his heirs quite regularly enforce their IP rights.
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As long as there is real technology involved, sure, I agree. But Apple primarily holds design - and NOT technology - patents. And their innovation in the software patent category - which is a category that shouldn't even exist in the first place because it's like patenting mathematics or language - is basically limited to trivial things like "slide to unlock", where someone awarded them a patent for a method invented thousands of years before Christ was born.
So, are "rounded corners" and "slide to unlock" worthy of patents and billions of dollars? Most certainly not. This whole case only demonstrates how perverted the American patent system is.
Apple didn't patent "rounded corners" or "rectangles." They patented specific designs that incorporate rounded corners and rectangles. So what? So has Samsung, and so has every car manufacturer.
Because, apparently, Apple has already hired all the good lawyers in your country and everybody else can only recruit the leftovers. At least everything that was published about this lawsuit so far does not leave much room for any other conclusion. Samsung's lawyers really blew this one. On further notice, Apple wasn't as lucky in the lawsuits that they launched in Europe against Samsung.
Samsung hired high-powered and high-priced lawyers, too. They had a chance to make their case. They didn't. As for Europe, their patent system is a bit different from the US' and arguably less favorable to inventors. Having said that, Google and Samsung also have gotten nowhere in their suits against Apple in Europe.