When has Apple ever put a gun to your head and told you that you had to use their phone or their credit card, or streaming box, or streaming service, or anything else? They are simply designing and building products and offering them in a competitive market, and people are free to choose their products or anyone else's.The problem is somewhere along the line this argument should no longer be used when you have too much power. At what point does it stop? Having an Apple Bank, Apple Card, Apple Insurance, Apple Health Care, Apple Food, Apple TV etc etc. Or even Apple City? With more power comes more responsibility.
Products come with existing known limitations. If you were to go to a company that makes only EVs and demand a car with a gas engine, they'd (quite rightly) show you the door. If you went to an American car manufacturer and demanded to buy their latest model, but with all metric screws with pentalobe heads, they would also show you the door.
If Apple bought a city-sized chunk of land and built a planned city (apparently your worst nightmare), that met all existing building, zoning, and land use codes, and then proceeded to populate it with shops and businesses and homes, and started selling/leasing those homes and shops and business space, why do you feel that that, in and of itself, requires greater oversight? I mean, sure, check to see that they are following all applicable laws, but it sounds like you would campaign against this - even if people went and visited and saw what it had to offer and said "I want to live here, so much so that I'm buying one of these homes". Again, it's not Apple replacing all existing homes with Apple homes, it's not Apple forcing you to use their products. So why do you care so much? Why do you want to impose laws and regulations beyond those that already exist?