French here.
As many have said, Apple's PR strategy here is questionable at best, completely disingenuous and borderline offensive if we are objective.
Complaining that because of the EU's rules they cannot implement this or that feature, or simply have to work more (oh the irony... isn't this just blatantly telling us they don't want to put any efforts into compliance ?) would perhaps work IF it also affected others. But apparently, they're all alone here.
Let's have a look at Android manufacturers and all the competition:
Somehow, they manage to comply with all the rules, and still offer innovative products.
Somehow, the EU population that is using an Android phone has not gone bankrupt, was not drawn into porn or lost all their savings in gambling, crypto scams or a whole zoo of viruses, worms and other Trojans (wait... does Safari prevent you to access any of these potentially harmful sites ? No, that's what I thought).
None of Apple's main competitors, whether from Asia or the US, are currently struggling because of EU's laws.
On the other hand, having an iPhone doesn't guarantee any more privacy or safety, since we all use the same apps whatever the OS. Is Apple blocking Facebook ? Tik-tok ? or even X ? No of course not. These networks can thrive on the iPhone, stealing away your attention, personal data, and soul. All they want as long as Apple gets its share.
So let's be honest for a moment. This communication isn't targeted at us. Any sane EU customer will immediately (if they still have a brain) ask how on earth a feature like phone mirroring, live translation or any of that stuff have anything to do with EU regulation.
Customers do not care about laws, but lawmakers do.
So this PR move targets all the lobbying forces to give them fuel. Fuel to convince the not so savvy lawmakers to bend the rules in Apple's favor, thinking they're doing the right job.
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As a customer having to deal with Apple's shenanigans since many years now, I'm not pissed at the EU but at Apple.
I'm quite invested in the "ecosystem" but seeing as it is so hard to get out of it I'm now more and more inclined into calling it a predatory scheme than an ecosystem.
I would gladly hop to Android, since it's been years since I've been even mildly excited by an Apple product. Problem, what do I do with my Watch ? My Airpods ?
People advertising this as synergy or whatever grand word are just delusional. It's a trap to keep you captive of their brand and make it as hard as possible to escape it.
But let me tell you, if Apple continues to treat us as cows trying to milk every single cent, especially with such a discourse, is slowly but surely making it easier to swallow the pill and throw out everything to switch to the competition.
I'm not that naïve, and I know a Pixel or a Galaxy phone is not miles ahead of an iPhone, but man do I feel more and more disgusted picking up that glass brick of an iPhone.
You make some great points and frustration is understandable. I disagree that Apple is being "completely disingenuous and borderline offensive".
My replies are not in any specific order.
1. It is true that Android manufacturers have mostly adapted more smoothly to some EU rules, but Apple’s architecture (tight hardware/software integration, centralized App Store, proprietary frameworks like iMessage and AirDrop) makes compliance more complex than it is for most phone manufacturers. Rules such as sideloading requirements or USB-C standards directly interact with Apple’s core business model. Apple's struggle with the rules might reflect corporation structural differences rather than disingenuous resistance. What the DMA does is directly attack core parts of Apple's business model. A company doesn't change that easily, even if outsiders want it to. Further, Apple is profitable from its hardware/software integration -- something that other companies struggle to do. The DMA is trying to change what makes Apple Apple and iPhones/iOS influential, market-leading, and respected. The EU needs airtight reasons for forcing changes to that. From my reading of the DMA (I'm not a legal expert), I don't see that it is legally airtight and necessarily in the best interest of consumers.
2. Apple does not block Facebook, TikTok, or X, but it does implement system-level privacy features—App Tracking Transparency, mail privacy protection, on-device processing of Siri requests—that competitors often follow later, if at all. While not perfect, these measures demonstrate that Apple’s focus on privacy isn’t purely cosmetic and is not completely driven by a 'desire' to make money.
3. You are correct in that corporate PR often doubles as lobbying. However, if you frame Apple’s communication solely as manipulation, you overlook the fact that major tech firms (Google, Meta, Microsoft, Samsung) all engage in similar regulatory lobbying. In fact,
the DMA came into existence in part because of lobbying by Spotify and other companies, who did so in part out of financial self-interest. Apple’s messaging may be self-interested, but it is not uniquely so. Governments can also have self-interest that does not always benefit citizens and consumers. Not acknowledging this ignores the history of governments.
4. Apple’s ecosystem
is sticky, but it also offers genuine benefits: seamless device handoff, continuity features, great integration of accessories like AirPods, and cross-platform services like iCloud -- these are things you recognized. For many, this integration improves productivity and reduces friction. Calling it “predatory” ignores that this stickiness/lock-in is often the flip side of convenience. Apple's implementation of this integration also has real privacy benefits by keeping as much on-device as possible. Compare that to all the companies that do not have a similar focus but instead make money on advertising (which also includes Spotify, which has a free [ad-supported] tier that generates revenue by 'invading' the privacy of listeners -- again, the DMA was driven in part by Spotify).