Fair enough. I’m of the opinion that the EU and the US governments both aren’t responsive enough (largely on account of being too centralized and top heavy). Far better 99.9999% of the time to make decisions closer to the people impacted by those decisions, in my opinion. (For instance, should the federal government really be funding major public transportation infrastructure in NYC, just because NYC’s the largest city? There isn’t that much difference between the billions spent on the East Side Access project* and the bridge to nowhere in Alaska in the grand scheme of things.)
I’m a decentralist, and the EU is inherently a centralizing force, so I’m always going to have a core philosophical issue with the EU. That really can’t be helped, I suppose. It would be one thing if the EU limited it to truly international scale issues in Europe, but it wants to be a general European government. I’d rather have more powers devolved to the national governments of Europe (or even the regional governments) than concentrated in the hands of the EU. And that’s even without getting into issues of how technocratic and non-democratic the EU is. Very little of EU policy is up to direct vote by MEPs, and, even then, how much say do constituents really have in the election of their MEPs? (I live in a place where my political vote is basically a drop in a bucket in a sea of single party voters, but that was true before I lived here, too. That can feel very disenfranchising, I don’t feel like my elected officials would even listen to a single word I say, because, to be honest, they don’t need my vote.)
* I say this despite notionally being a beneficiary of the East Side Access project, incidentally. Very few Americans stand to directly or indirectly benefit from it, since most aren’t ever gonna fly to JFK and take the AirTrain then the LIRR into Manhattan, anymore than they’ll benefit from a mile of four lane blacktop out in Wyoming or Montana).