Seriously??
If you're that worked up over these issues, why don't you just sell off your iPhone NOW and use a competing product? It's not worth giving yourself a heart-attack over it!
Quite frankly, I knew a LOT of people who didn't care much for iTunes, several versions ago. Especially on the Windows side of things, there were already quite a few really nice music management programs around, and most seemed to load more quickly and in some cases, work with the files on your iPod more flexibly than iTunes did.
But at present, I think it's about the best you could expect to ever get for free from a company selling the hardware and commercial content! Have you ever seen the horribly buggy and broken players people were required to use for services like "Yahoo Music", when they tried to sell music?
iTunes made some recent changes that make the product MUCH more respectable, IMHO - like auto-sorting content into appropriate sub-folders for you based on the type of media it is. (No more throwing your videos and audiobooks and everything under the "Music" folder like it once did.)
And as for Apple "making decisions for its users", yep - they often do, but that's why their products get heaps of praise for "ease of use", "forward thinking" and so on. The fact is, most users aren't interested in or willing to make the effort necessary to make good decisions about all the aspects of the products they purchase. With Apple, you're paying, in part, to let them "call the shots" for you - so you can "sit back and enjoy the results".
Some very good products have been released in the past couple decades that give the user *ultimate control* over everything. Guess what? Most failed miserably or faded into obscurity. (My old Rio "MP3 Car" music player comes to mind.... It was a pull-out car stereo type of device that held up to 2 notebook hard drives inside and ran Linux. When pulled out of the dash, you could attach an AC adapter to the back, hook up its RCA outputs to a stereo or plug headphones into the headphone jack, and use it indoors. The open source operating system let people do any and all hacking they wanted, to roll their own custom menus and features. At the time, it was leaps and bounds ahead of anything out there by the "name brand car stereo" makers! It was also a dead product within the year....)
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[Expletive deleted] that. I will never click on an ad in an app. This may be a dealbreaker for me on the iPhone.
I like Apple's hardware, mostly, but I really hate the way this [expletive deleted] company makes decisions for its users. Steve Jobs apparently thinks he's [expletive deleted] [expletive deleted] God. (I'm not kidding. When asked: "Why no widgets on iPad?" he replied: "We just shipped it on Saturday, and we rested on Sunday. Everything is possible." Really, Steve? This guy makes some great products but he seriously needs to get over himself.)
And, since I'm on this rant, let me just add that iTunes is the worst, slowest, money-grubbiest piece of [expletive deleted] I've ever had the misfortune to have been forced to use on a mac. I use it only to sync the phone and download free podcasts mainly for academic use. I refuse to buy [expletive deleted] music or other [expletive deleted] except for iphone apps and hardware from Apple.
The iPhone, which I have come to really like, is starting to seem less worth it. I am now seriously on the lookout for an iPhone killer.
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