They have not denied anything. They told you they are fixing the iPhone 4 reception issues and you decided you don't believe them. Returning the phone is certainly what you should do if you are unhappy, but you not believing them is not the same as they are denying it.
Touching a small area of the external case can stop a download instantly in it's tracks - no other phone does this, my 3G doesnt do this - this is even on wifi - explain how bar display will help? Oh, and no presumptions about what Apple MAY be doing, I'm not allowed speculation so nor are you.