This has been discussed before. It could be done, but it's not worth the trouble. If you wanted them to share RAM, then they'd have to figure out a way for Intel and ARM chips to agree on memory consistency. While perhaps technically possible, it's most likely too much work to get there. You could put the other CPU on the PCIe bus though, and talk to it just like you talk to a graphics card. Then it would need its own RAM, and you'd copy data back and forth. This is perhaps easier (and similar to the old x86 cards), but you end up duplicating some hardware and probably lose some performance. At the end of the day, if this was something that would sell them another 50M devices per quarter, I'm sure they'd do it. But would we even be talking 500K devices? I'm pretty sure it's not worth it.
Yeah, I thought about the implications of that. Two processors sharing the same memory would be a recipe for disaster unless some memory management subsystem was in place, and that would definitely add some overhead, of course.
What if… accepting hardware duplication as a fact of life (hey, such a machine would always be more expensive, so… as long as it was worth it, people would pay for it; just imagine the use cases – besides the potential power-saving aspect of such a config if done on a portable system –, like full-speed virtualization which would be more like having a KVM switch and two real systems in a box), the ARM side of things had, as is common on iOS devices, not only its own integrated graphics but also Package-on-Package memory? Heat dissipation-wise, would such an arrangement still be compatible with overclocking and active cooling, or would the memory, being sandwiched between the CPU+GPU and the heatsink, be outright fried? Questions, questions…
You don't *have* to. You can run macOS on a delidded 5.2GHz 8700K, undervolted Vega 56, maxed out with RAM and SSD, just to take a completely random and unrelated example

That's really the Mac Midi that they should have released a year ago, but didn't. As far as tinker boxes from Apple, I think those days are gone. I think everyone hoping for a tinker friendly Mac Pro will be very disappointed.
I know I don't. That's why I'm still using a Late 2009 27'' iMac with a 2.93 GHz Core i7, 32 GB of RAM, a DIY fusion drive and a BT4+802.11ac card. I could also be using a Hackintosh (I'm guessing the config you suggested would only be feasible on such a machine, and not on an official, Apple-branded Mac). The thing is, while I'm widely know across my circle of friends, acquaintances, former Mac room goers (I used to be a monitor at my Uni, and I was responsible for the upkeep of 30+ Macs spanning two labs) and even current students as “the Mac guy” (I don't know, I guess I'm kinda famous on a local level…?), I'm seriously trying to pivot to academia (also, as of late, I've been neglecting my design career a bit as well).
This crap is fun, but way too time consuming, and I feel I should leave my ersatz repair & upgrade business to someone else (it's not like you need to have a degree or to be a very special person to do it; any PC geek can do the same things I do and much more) and even skip the DIY aspect of it altogether (though I am loath to the idea of paying someone else to do anything I can do on my own, and I had enough bad experiences even with AASPs for me to be able to trust, well, anyone else but me – save perhaps for Louis Rossmann or someone else with his level of skill, of course; as such, I am intending on buying the next 4K iMac revision and giving it the SnazzyLabs treatment two years down the line, once the EU-mandated two-year warranty expires, but that would be kind of a one-time thing for each
desktop machine I own in the future).
Case in point (because I always believed laptops would inevitable – and sadly, but such is life – turn into a different kind of [monolithic] beast down the road): I also own a Mid-2011 13'' MacBook Pro, which I also want to get rid of (and I still haven't managed to do so… I tried our local equivalent to Craigslist and I only got answers from blatant scammers) because it can't officially run Mojave (or unofficially with proper GPU support, at least); I decided to try a dual SSD RAID 0 config before buying a 2012 machine, and it worked perfectly and was wicked fast for its age and price (I would have to resort to Carbon Copy Cloner in order to even be able to update the OS, but I wouldn't mind that in the least as I have enough spare HDDs lying around).
Guess what, I bought the 2012 machine and when trying out the same config on it I found the ODD connector/controller, supposedly of the SATA III 6 Gbps kind, always craps out with whatever SATA III devices you connect to it (I tried everything: SSDs and HDDs, both old and new, to no avail). To this day, I'm still not sure whether this is an issue with the machine itself, with the entire model range, with the firmware, or what; I seriously thought of buying another one to test that config out, but I just can't afford to go around buying old computers, at €600 a piece, that I may then have a hard time flipping on scammer-ridden websites, so I decided to wait until a few trustworthy friends and colleagues are willing to be my guinea pigs (that time will eventually come, and I may indeed resell both my 13'' MacBook Pros and buy one – maybe from one of said friends, even – that is known to be working with SATA III on both bays).
So, anyway, I had to return the SSDs and make do with a regular Fusion Drive made up of a crappy Toshiba SATA II HDD instead, and since it had to be stuck in the ODD bay so I could make use of the SATA III connection in the HDD bay for the SSD, I also had to do away with the screw-in ODD plastic caddy/adapter and replace it with self-adhesive sponge bits and blu-tack, both on the bottom cover and on the underside of the keyboard, for shock absorption. It's one hell of a jury rig, but it works. Also, I've been running Mojave PB on it from an external USB 3 dock, but sometimes it refuses to boot and gives me the forbidden sign (it's just a matter of trying again until it does boot, but… it's the kind of issue I never got before and which does give me pause).
I also shoehorned Mountain Lion into a 2008 MacBook back in the day, and it was fun, and usable, and all, but… having to make sure each and every update was compatible with MLPostFactor and to reapply the kext patches was, to put it mildly, yet another chore. At that point, you might as well cave in and switch to a PC, or install some version of Windows or Linux on it.

Gone were the days when you could install Leopard on a 800 MHz G4 eMac just by putting it into Target Disk Mode, running the DVD installer from a G5 tower and calling it a day…
To be honest, I'm sick of these constant little snags, and especially of wasting so much time on these projects. They are fun, yes (even when they get seriously frustrating… I must be a masochist or something), but I have much more to contribute to the world elsewhere… Besides, I am savvy enough to deal with T2-equipped machines which you can't recover data from if they die, as I keep on-site, off-site (both encrypted) and cloud-based backups. I've also nearly had my computer stolen once (back then, I only had my dependable – until it died from capacitor rot, that is – iMac G5, and a single external FW400 HDD), when I was still living with my parents (they had a break-in, and I entered the place while the robbers were still in there – I never saw them, as they did a silent escape through the same window from which they broke into the house –, so I guess I saved my computer and my backups in the nick of time), so… the safer my data is, the better.
All things considered and if my budget allows for it, I, for one, welcome our new anorexic, glued- and soldered-on Mac overlords.

Buuuut… thanks for your suggestion anyway. If I ever hit a financial rut and need a new machine while in it, I may seriously consider that option. Just because it's a bit of a hassle, I'd still rather deal with the known issues and shortcomings of running macOS on PC hardware (such as, say, not being able to use iMessage on it, or having to wait a few weeks to perform updates; it's not like many regular professional Mac users don't do that anyway already) than having to deal with *gasp* Windows on a daily basis.

I already had to finish my BFA on a Toshiba running Vista when my G5 iMac crapped out (hey, I was waiting for the rumoured 27'' iMac I am still using to this day to be announced, and the computer was a loaner from my dad's small business, so… while excruciating, it was definitely worth it), and it's not something I want to go through again if I can help it.