You are assuming that because processes have RAM assigned to them, that is wasted memory. On the contrary. The operating system should definitely be trying to maximise the amount of physical RAM it's using. Otherwise you wasted your money on purchasing the extra memory. Where in the manual does it say that a frequently used app (like the Music app in your case) should not lay claim to more RAM the longer it is used? Providing the operating system can efficiently juggle what is needed when it is needed, the amount of RAM that a process is using is irrelevant.
No it isn't; if a process' memory usage grows to 30 gb that's not only wasting a huge chunk of RAM but also forcing swapping, that's not fine, it's a major problem. What reality do you live in where infinite memory usage is fine?
Do people here not understand what memory leaks are? Music.app's memory footprint should not grow, there is simply no reason for it to consume more and more RAM, yet it does. That is a major flaw in a first party app, one that Apple has thus far completely failed to fix.
A system processes' memory usage should not grow infinitely over time either.
You may have an edge case involving a genuine problem, but I suspect the great majority of users do not. Is your Memory Pressure in the red? If not, you are worrying about nothing.
I'm sorry but can nobody on this forum actually read what I am writing?
I have to restart my computer every week or memory pressure will eventually grow to unusable levels; I have now said this a total of four times over two posts, yet it has been ignored in 100% of replies.
There are fundamental memory leaking issues with macOS Catalina; I may be in the minority of users that actually
notice there is a problem, but that doesn't mean they aren't there, and it doesn't excuse Apple for ignoring the multiple processes that contribute to it (all of which I have reported) or for allowing these issues to occur in an operating system release in the first place, it points to a quality assurance process that either is non-existent, or completely failing.
System processes should be getting
more efficient, not less over time, and yet macOS releases have consistently become increasingly shoddy. The last macOS version I was actually happy with was probably Snow Leopard; Apple has been focusing far too much on inventing marketable features and less on just making the operating system run better.
And 10.15.5 is no exception btw, as high memory usage has still not been resolved, it's been two days and already the same culprits are climbing in usage again. I don't care about "new" battery management features that existed in old Thinkpads (but which for some reason Apple hasn't bothered to implement until decades later), I care about an operating system being properly useful as an operating system. I want macOS to be a good OS, but I am increasingly disappointed with every new release, it feels far too much like Apple simply doesn't care any more.