Even though Apple didn't use simple common sense for the default security choices to prevent accidental purchases, some people will continue to try to blame the users, and to make excuses for Apple's bad decisions.
Apple soon figured out that having a secret timeout as the default was not the best idea. They were refunding purchases even before class actions and the government got involved. They also changed the defaults.
Btw, for anyone wondering, the purchased virtual items were also taken back. Nobody got anything for free.