Yes, I know... you certainly are correct regarding the question of am I "close to missing my time window" for the wife's watch delivery. Even though the entire purchasing process has been completely exhausting from the start, and even though I received my watch ahead of schedule, the extreme close proximity between her estimated shipping date(s) and mine (1 day) that was provided by Apple presented an allusion, even an impression if you will, that the delivery dates for the two watches would be within close proximinity of one another (1 day perhaps based on delivery estimates provided). In the end, the estimated delivery ranges were ultimately laden with false hope and misguided foresight to any real clue of the slightest possible wait mate of an actual delivery timeframe lol. And as you said, if I were a gambling man I would bet heavy on the wife's watch actually being delivered to our home BEFORE the close of the estimated delivery window provided by Apple.
The major frustration you mention comes from exactly the direction you identified; the realization (after the fact) that had I ordered the watch with an alternative band combination it would have already been delivered, with us simply waiting a few days, or even a few weeks yet perhaps, for the other, additional bands we ordered for the watch. But because of the specificity of the exact watch/band combination ordered, the delay was considerable from the moment I placed my thumb to the glowing Apple Pay logo.
That being said, this whole delivery issue, missed time estimates, inaccurate preorder information, the Apple site online not being available right at preorder launch, and now with stores locally claiming to be likely recipients of Apple watch product to sell through store outlets while loyal Apple preorder customers have yet to even receive their watch (yes I know this a loaded statement to make with a ton of built-in acceptable assumptions I'm assuming that will all be true in JUNE simply for the sake of discussion) is going to essentially hurt Apple in the long run. Loyal customers who were once willing to wait in line all night long for a release-day product, or wake up in the middle of the night to preorder a new device, are now all turned off by this experience moving forward. People pay the "Apple Premium" not just for quality hardware and software but for the entire "Apple Experience," and every little thing that goes with it; the comraderie from waiting in line with strangers, the niceness of the packaging, the great customer support, the question-less returns with product defects or issues, the feeling that you are getting a better experience. Now people are so agitated by this mess that it has left a sour taste in their mouth and in their wallets. My use case is a perfect example: I ordered both the watches at the same time so we would both receive them at the same time. We were excited and couldn't wait to get the shiny new Apple toys. Well fast-forward 4 weeks and I receive mine. I was excited and about the device and was glad I made the purchase. However, it was hard to stay excited about MY watch because the wife's watch is still NOT HERE yet. So now the watch for ME has lost some of its luster and shine due to the fact that it only benefits me in a selfish way and the process has dented the excitement that my wife had for her watch as well. Hopefully the mood changes upon arrival of her watch but honestly I am not sure. Being honest, if I asked her now, based on me having mine for the past 3 weeks and her not having one (had we both not originally ordered the two for us both), if she wanted me to order her a watch to be delivered in a week I think she would say NO. The emotional let down from all the delivery issued and inaccurate delivery and production data has been visibly disheartening.
I know this seems dramatic and extreme, over a silly watch, and maybe it is; however, for a family of TWO that spends an annual budget close to $12k a YEAR at the local Apple Store, whether silly or not it has caused extensive damage to the way this household collectively views Apple moving forward with products and services. Yes I know it was a new product category and yes it was run by a new VP and yes it was Cook's first product alone (not technically but I will allow it) and yes, yes, yes... But, look at the past two years of the product cycles, look at the recent product launches, and compare the differences now and in the past. And I am not looking at Apple financials because YES Mr. Cook is doing a GREAT JOB increasing the share price of Apple stock ten-fold and I am thankful for his hard work as an investor. That aside, an honest, non-biased totalitarian assessment of everything Apple over the past 4 years will provide all the information I am alluding to now. I hope it changes, I really do; from a product and services standpoint as again I implore Mr. Cook to please continue doing whatever it is he is doing to generate the returns on Apple stock he is earning.
Wow what a really, really long post. Sorry forum readers. Guess I had more to say than I thought lol.
Thanks for reading.
Best
JS