Apple's stance on privacy has always been about giving users a choice as to whether they want to be tracked. That's why we have ATT, Sign In with Apple as well as the ability to hide our email addresses with iCloud+. People who wish to take this one step further have the option of weaning themselves off google's services by way of Maps, Siri, Safari+ad blockers, iCloud Drive and iCloud mail.
I have never found their messaging to be confusing, not least because I don't buy into the conspiracy theory that Apple's pro-privacy stance is nothing more than a marketing cover to sell ads and boost its services revenue. This is the narrative that disgruntled developers and competitors are trying to push in a bid to dismantle Apple's grip in the App Store, so they are free to sidestep iOS App Store rules and oversight.
I don't blame the competition for trying to paint Apple in the worst possible light, but I am disheartened to see iOS users buy into these blatant lies hook, line and sinker.
Rather, I choose to (rightfully) see the perspective of the average App Store consumer, and it's not hard to see how what Apple does is to my benefit as the end user. That's what a lot of the criticism surrounding the App Store gets wrong - Apple sells me an experience, and it stands to earn much more money by keeping its users satisfied and engaged with its ecosystem including App Store and privacy features like ATT, than from ads or from compromising my privacy.