Definitely an Introvert. I have many friends, a few close friends and I often enjoy/prefer doing things on my own. Is that strange? Funny enough though, I'm always the loud and crazy one at parties. 
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Are You An Introvert or an Extrovert?
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On a site with almost 600,000 registered users no less
. please keep in mind these are simply my thoughts on this subject...
Anonymity and introversion are not interchangeable terms in my opinion. I know by Definition that using computers / social networking and the likes can keep people labeled as introverts, however, they are interacting with more people than introverts that avoid such tools (like my parents for instance).
Even though it is somewhat on your terms, it is still more than your counterparts (within that label) would have done 10 years ago, and people who avoid such tools today. Again, it is just my own opinion, but I would put people that enjoy social networking, and who participate in large internet social sites into the group known as Ambiversion. Which is a group of people who exhibit traits from both introvert and extrovert.
Wouldn't it be more likely that true introverts wouldn't respond here, and likely would only be lurking on sites like this, as opposed to signing up and posting
Okay, you busted me. I'm an extrovert. If I were talking to you in person, I'd be looking at YOUR shoes.
I'd say I'm more introverted now than I was at 18...back then we were still making friends in high school/college, but over the last...hmm...another 18 years or so, I feel like I've gathered close friends around me, and I'm not nearly as interested as I once was in making new friends.
Here and there, sure, but I don't go out of my way to make new friends.
Guess it says something that when I was 17, I signed up for a talent night and was scared ****less when they actually called my name ...and when it was over (successfully, at least), I've never wanted to do anything like it ever again.
So yeah...introvert
Here and there, sure, but I don't go out of my way to make new friends.
Guess it says something that when I was 17, I signed up for a talent night and was scared ****less when they actually called my name ...and when it was over (successfully, at least), I've never wanted to do anything like it ever again.
So yeah...introvert
Most of my life a card-carrying introvert, but now can switch it on and off, depending on motivation, mood, alcohol withdrawal, aggravation, etc.
In short, fairly balanced, FINALLY!!!
In short, fairly balanced, FINALLY!!!
When I'm on here, I'm still technically by myself. As an introvert, this is like the best of both worlds.On a site with almost 600,000 registered users no less
please keep in mind these are simply my thoughts on this subject...
Anonymity and introversion are not interchangeable terms in my opinion. I know by Definition that using computers / social networking and the likes can keep people labeled as introverts, however, they are interacting with more people than introverts that avoid such tools (like my parents for instance).
Even though it is somewhat on your terms, it is still more than your counterparts (within that label) would have done 10 years ago, and people who avoid such tools today. Again, it is just my own opinion, but I would put people that enjoy social networking, and who participate in large internet social sites into the group known as Ambiversion. Which is a group of people who exhibit traits from both introvert and extrovert.
The poll results seems to agree with me.
Most of my life a card-carrying introvert, but now can switch it on and off, depending on motivation, mood, alcohol withdrawal, aggravation, etc.
In short, fairly balanced, FINALLY!!!
Is it something which you learned, or a drug that you take?
I'm definitely introverted. It's the only dichotomy on the MBTI I got 100% on. I would say that there are a lot of introverts on the internet, especially on forums. Most people are social to some degree, introverts would just prefer the interaction to be through a web site or some other digital social means.
In fact, I bet more people are introverted than they realize because they think of that quiet kid in school who didn't speak at all, when that is not necessarily what introvertedness is.
I am a member of a really cool forum called Personality Cafe. If you like personality stuff and/or the MBTI, I'd recommend looking around there.
In fact, I bet more people are introverted than they realize because they think of that quiet kid in school who didn't speak at all, when that is not necessarily what introvertedness is.
I am a member of a really cool forum called Personality Cafe. If you like personality stuff and/or the MBTI, I'd recommend looking around there.
I never knew the name of that test until I read this(I go through my old threads to make sure I haven't missed anything). Here are my results.
I'm a borderline extravert according to my last Myers Briggs test. If I'm not out in social situations(parties, bars, etc) around twice a week I get depressed. If I'm in social situations more than 4 times a week I get exhausted.
Oddly enough, I generally have the best time when I go out by myself and talk to people I don't know.
Oddly enough, I generally have the best time when I go out by myself and talk to people I don't know.
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I am strongly introverted. The thought of large public gatherings almost leads to a quiet panic. I have abused alcohol in the past to cope with such situations. I would rather spend my time in my own head, with my wife, or with a small set of friends. It often seems hopeless to be "normal", though I try my best to be a chameleon.
I almost never talk to people I don't know. When I try, my heart freaks out and I can't think straight. People always have to make the effort to get to know me first, which is why I don't have many friends.
I can't even make eye contact with the people I do know(I'm working on this, and seeking some medical help).
I just joined up, thanks for the link
I took a few online quizzes and managed the same results on all three, so I guess it's fairly reliable...say hi to an ISFJ
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Huh, I guess I shouldn't be suprised by the percentage of introverts in a forum, but I kinda am. I guess I could see the allure of forums to introverts. It's not true social interaction so it might not be as hard to talk with people. I just got into forums because I work at a very boring job and it helps pass the time.
I'm a very out going person and while I might not talk to every stranger on the corner, if I'm at a social function I enjoy getting into the mix and meeting new people. Actually, now that i think about it I'm far more introverted on forums than real life...lol.
I'm a very out going person and while I might not talk to every stranger on the corner, if I'm at a social function I enjoy getting into the mix and meeting new people. Actually, now that i think about it I'm far more introverted on forums than real life...lol.
Something to be aware of when doing tests like these is that often they are geared up towards the work environment and don't reflect your personality. For example, I went through a similar process with the dept I worked in for a large mobile telco in the UK. I remember one of the drive survey guys kicking off because his test had him as an introvert and he felt he was quite extrovert. It was pointed out that it was his working preference, as he was quite happy working on his own all day (out in the survey van) and didn't need to be around other workers.
Just saying to understand what the test is assessing before nailing your colours to the mast
Just saying to understand what the test is assessing before nailing your colours to the mast
Don't be so hard on yourself. Extroverts (being extroverted and mouthy, lol) tend to think that there is something wrong with introverts. The thought process goes that if only those introverts were introduced to the right people they would become extroverts and therefore be cured. This is not true. It's a social preference and if you are able to function in society and be happy there is no need to be something you're not.
Most workplaces seem to be full of extroverts--this is a lie. lol They *pretend* to be extroverted because a lot of workplaces seem to value outgoing people. My workplace is full of introverts--and so the opposite is true for me. There is one coworker whom I walk past every day and gets stressed if I say hello in the morning--she is in the cube next to mine. Once I started communicating with her exclusively through email she was less stressed and quite friendly. Anyway, everyone has preferences.
Introverts are more likely to:
- Have a higher IQ
- Discover their talents
- Develop mentally and spiritually
- Succeed at school & work
- Become rich (financially & intellectually)
- Become influential personalities to the people around them
- Have successful marriages & successful kids.
This is my own observation. Let me know if you agree.
- Have a higher IQ
- Discover their talents
- Develop mentally and spiritually
- Succeed at school & work
- Become rich (financially & intellectually)
- Become influential personalities to the people around them
- Have successful marriages & successful kids.
This is my own observation. Let me know if you agree.