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Are You An Introvert or an Extrovert?
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Another introvert here joins the party! 
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I suspect that some of my introvertedness stems from being an only child; I suspect that of my parents my father was definitely an introvert while my mother was more in the middle between introversion and extroversion. While both parents engaged in various activities with friends (playing bridge or playing golf) and attended parties, I don't recall our family having too many large gatherings in our home, just the occasional dinner party with a few friends. While I'm fine in groups, I much prefer small groups or one-on-one interactions and I definitely am perfectly content with my own company as well. Having lived alone for many years now, I can't imagine living with even one other person again!
. I suspect that some of my introvertedness stems from being an only child; I suspect that of my parents my father was definitely an introvert while my mother was more in the middle between introversion and extroversion. While both parents engaged in various activities with friends (playing bridge or playing golf) and attended parties, I don't recall our family having too many large gatherings in our home, just the occasional dinner party with a few friends. While I'm fine in groups, I much prefer small groups or one-on-one interactions and I definitely am perfectly content with my own company as well. Having lived alone for many years now, I can't imagine living with even one other person again!
Another introvert here joins the party!
I suspect that some of my introvertedness stems from being an only child; I suspect that of my parents my father was definitely an introvert while my mother was more in the middle between introversion and extroversion. While both parents engaged in various activities with friends (playing bridge or playing golf) and attended parties, I don't recall our family having too many large gatherings in our home, just the occasional dinner party with a few friends. While I'm fine in groups, I much prefer small groups or one-on-one interactions and I definitely am perfectly content with my own company as well. Having lived alone for many years now, I can't imagine living with even one other person again!
Yes, that has a lot of truth.
When you are younger, you will make a lot of compromises (personally, perhaps professionally) for others, even if introverted, compromises that ultimately, you come to the realisation that they may make you uncomfortable as they go against your very own deepest nature.
These days, I am better at just saying "no", and I do harbour doubts as to whether I would be able to, or wish to, live with somebody else; the truth is, I'm used to my own company, and quite like it.
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Actually, I don't think anyone who has posted in this thread to date is "fitting themselves into a stereotype".
Rather, they are describing what they are using known terminology.
What I find fascinating is how some societies and cultures (and work cultures) have come to value certain specific traits over others; certainly, I suspect that some introverts may find the cultural approval of extraversion you find in the US somewhat hard to deal with at times.
Other cultures value reserve, restraint and privacy somewhat more.
People exhaust me I've never had more than one or two friends and right now my wife and daughter fill the people roll.
Most days I stay inside because it’s just too peopley out there.
Eh, it varies by situation. I work in a customer-facing environment so I have to be more extroverted at work, but ideally I would have little to no contact with people outside of my wife and kids.
I am undeniably an introvert. I am also shy (which is not the same thing). Being an introvert for me means that I value time to myself more than my extroverted friends do. I can spend a lot of time reading, listening to music, or (more rarely) writing. It does not mean that I cannot socialize. I enjoy spending time with my friends and going to parties, just not too much of it. I also work a job that is essentially customer service, and I must answer the phone. (My boss was initially concerned that I wouldn't be good at this work because I'm too quiet, but I have no problem stepping it up when I have to).
Me too -- This will be challenged tonight at a holiday party actually..
I basically hate this time of year as I don't really like having to do holiday parties and all the forced fake BS "socializing".
I'm actually "great at it" - but hate it - and it wears me out completely.
No question...and its' really hard to explain to people who don't suffer from it.
So many just "don't get it" and think you're being anti-social or "no fun" and they just don't realize that - no - I'm just literally mentally gassed after X amount of time.
Exactly.
And exchanging banalities or engaging in small talk - yes, I can do it - I have held positions in international organisations where this was considered necessary and normal - but, it is tiring (actually, sometimes, exhausting) and I will admit to a dislike of it.
As for being "no fun", I can live with that; I suppose I could be considered to be fun when I am in the company of interesting, witty, decent people whose company I enjoy.
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