The other group obsessing are those who read the battery threads all the time and start believing their phone has a problem when it doesn't.
I still like these type of threads for the insights that are born amidst hot discussions.
Just usual physics work for me: smaller battery will degrade faster and owner has to deal with it.
How it affected my life? Easily, it taught me valuable life lessons.
SE1 2016 - I liked this phone so much that i bought it over the years. On a good note, all my lemon phones were replaced at the end of 1 year warranty with no questions from Apple. On a bad note, I totally liked my SOT numbers when new, but those get declining and worse at 6 month and even worse going further(resistance shutdowns and etc). I have had 4 phones and all 4 exhibit the same pattern more or less.
SE2 2020 - I also had 4 of those and all had similar issues - battery life gets just so bad closer to year 1 and forward. Though, not as bad as with smaller SE1.
I didn't own 12 mini and 13/13 mini for too long to make my observations, because I had no issues with them while owning 4 month each.
As a comparison point, my wife always had max/plus phones. Her battery easily goes 2-3 years with minimal battery health drop. 12PM to 13 PM - old had 100%. 13 PM to 14PM - old one had 98%. 8+ to 12PM - old one had 84% but give fair share it didn't budge the first 18 month.
Now I know how it affects my purchase decisions:
1) I like smaller phones. Which brings the point that with 13 mini I should be replacing battery every year to be happy camper with it. Or buy in bulk and replace/rotate.
When fresh, it has SOT of 5-7.5hrs(9hrs if you only listen music with no screen like airplane). The issue is that once degraded, it will get 3-6hr SOT and that is problematic.
2) I might go Pro Max route just because that is an easy long way keeper - its' battery degrades far slower and should be good for a big while. Why? Well all Pro Maxes of my wife report 10-13hrs SOT, even if we cut it in half in 2-3-4 years, that is still 5-6.5 hr SOT, which I feel comfortable to live with.