Link What a headache for all those cheaters.... Why do women cheat? At the heart of it is being the object of desire. Someone thought you were the greatest thing and wanted to spend their life with you. Ripping that away from someone feels awful. Now they don't even want to look at you, touch you, talk to you. But you have economic stability — A home. Kids. Family. You don't want to walk away from that just because you feel less than desired. People think, "I'll just put myself out there in an anonymous way." They want to rekindle that object of desire. You'll often find women seeking this attention byFacebooking with past lovers. How is that different from men? For men, it's often a sexual void — their partner isn't sleeping with them. They might think, "All I get is vanilla sex." They don't want vanilla — they want to try different flavors. Someone of different ethnicity. Age. Body type. Sexual appetite. The big thing, and this came out of a study by one university — oral sex. If your partner desires more activity in the oral sex department and you're not willing to participate, that is a big indicator that an affair might happen. The joke around here – maybe we should've named the site Oral Madison! Clearly there is an oral sex void in America.