Good news for NY/NJ users
I registered to post this good news for people in NY/NJ who haven't received any update on their order yet:
The Apple Store on Fifth Ave and Grand Central and in NJ have stock on every model/color/size as of 8:40am today. I just cancelled my order with stupid at&t, and will pick up mine in store later today.
A little bit more information in case you're interested: Ordered a 64g Gold+ on at&t on 3:20am EST, estimate shipping time changed from 10.31-11.11 to 10.2-10.13, and has been stay there for a week. I woke up this morning and just curious so checked the store availability, to my surprise, Apple has all of them available for pickup today! I went to the premier site where you check your status, clicked on the cancel preorder button which reappeared sometime last week. Then within 30 secs received a confirmation email, confirm. Then go back to apple app, obviously my upgrade status was refreshed immediately because i was able to upgrade immediately.
I checked other models/colors, the 5th ave store has them all while the one in Grand central doesn't have gold pluses.
Suck it at&t, i will never order from you again.