Uh. The Best Buy employee was simply giving his opinion. It's very possible that this employee felt that the iPad 2 and 3 were very similar (I mean, aside from an A5X, retina, battery, and better camera).
I seriously hate how people assume an employee's opinions and views are tied to Best Buy as a whole. I don't particularly like Best Buy (certain policies), so I'm not trying to defend the corporation here. But just because this employee said "it's essentially the same thing" doesn't mean their manager walked up to them and said "hey, Best Buy believes that iPad 2 and 3 are essentially the same thing so make sure you tell customers that!" It was a Best Buy employee pushing the iPad 2, not Best Buy.
It's very well possible that this employee was just lazy. Rather than explain the difference between the A5X and retina and probably spend ~5-10 minutes telling the customer differences, this employee probably saw this gentleman was from an older generation and assumed that his technology needs were not as demanding as ours (users on MR).
When I worked in mobile department (my store was near a city of older/retired people), and customers would want cell phones, I wouldn't go up and recommend an Android or Blackberry or iPhone to them. I would take them to look at the cheaper, less sophisticated phones. Most of the customers I worked with who were older did not need/know about smartphones...they'd ask questions and I'd give them a very basic answer, but I'd ultimately lead them to the more simple phones.
This gentleman clearly has never purchased an iPad before, so perhaps it
was better to start him off on a cheaper iPad. It probably suits his needs, and he saved a good $100 or so (more if you include state taxes). The functionality is ultimately the same too.
This recommendation was based off that employee's opinion and (maybe) what he felt was best for this older gentleman. Best Buy is
not pushing the iPad 2...they are not saying it's the same thing either.
Individuals might push the iPad 2 (either out of laziness or because they feel that is the better option for the customer), but not the corporation.
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Even if what the salesman said was the truth, I feel it is not his place to decide for his customer what he should buy. At best, he should have told the customer the differences between both iPads, and let them make an informed decision for themselves.
Abazigal, employees don't decide what customers buy. They make recommendations based on some initial customer questions. There is just no winning here...some people complain that Best Buy employees don't inform the customers enough, some complain that they inform customers too much and are too "salesy". OP is a friend of the older gentleman's son...I would guess OP and friend are similar age...friend could have helped dad make an informed decision. People complain that Best Buy employees are crappy and lazy and whatever anyway...wouldn't it be better to do the research on your own at home, possibly with the help of a son you trust with technology?
Best Buy is built around recommendations. When you go into the TV department, you say you want a 55" for movies...an employee will recommend something if you don't have something already in mind. They aren't making the decision for the customer, just a recommendation.
My friend also had a similar experience last week, where she went to buy a MBA, but was talked into getting a Mbp instead. The salesman told her that the MBA was essentially a NetBook!
I know a Mbp refresh is coming in April, but come on...
Again, employee's opinion - take what they say with a grain of salt. This isn't Fry's or Microcenter...employee's don't get a higher commission by selling a MBP vs an MBA. It's a recommendation that the employee gave your friend; a recommendation that your friend decided to accept. Both the MBP and MBA are getting refreshes this year anyway...they (based on previous data) would be refreshed within just a few months of each other...so it's not that big of a deal.