i went through the same crap with someone on ebay. i paid through paypal at the very end of the auction, and i didn't get my phone until 2 and 1/2 almost 3 weeks later! it was horrible! the guy kept giving excuses like, "my wife is dropping it off before she goes to work." and "she said she dropped it off, i don't know why the tracking number isn't working." i wanted to strangle him!!
i kept hounding him until it arrived. i "threatened" them with negative feedback, calling important people (i can't remember who i threatened to call, but they were high up on the food chain. ha!), and filing a complaint with ebay. i messaged members who had bought from them before and they said the reason they got their package later was because the seller said their grandmother or someone passed away.
definitely message the other sellers (if they exist) and ask if they've had the same problems. be kind about it, and explain a bit about your situation.
best of luck!
i kept hounding him until it arrived. i "threatened" them with negative feedback, calling important people (i can't remember who i threatened to call, but they were high up on the food chain. ha!), and filing a complaint with ebay. i messaged members who had bought from them before and they said the reason they got their package later was because the seller said their grandmother or someone passed away.
definitely message the other sellers (if they exist) and ask if they've had the same problems. be kind about it, and explain a bit about your situation.
best of luck!