So PS3 games must be completely bad since they use a subset of OpenGL, iPhone/iPad games must be crappy since they use OpenGL ES.
While gaming on OSX might not be good as Windows and may never be, OpenGL drivers on OSX right now can only go up from here, not get worse. Even 10-20% can be gained via more optimizations in the drivers and better GPU choices that Apple and their GPU partners can work on. Apple is very conservative for drivers, barely update them and don't set aggressive settings at all.
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OpenCL 1.1 will not be in this build, I doubt that. It'll show up in a couple of builds away from now, Apple is often late with implementation of latest standards, despite the fact that we're just starting to get the full OpenGL 3.x support with some features missing. OpenGL 4.x is not likely to ever be in 10.6.x, we might see something in 10.7 but that can be years away as usual.
The question that remains is that, is Apple taking Valve serious about Steam and gaming on OSX? It is possible something will change but only time can tell.