Pretty true.
Although I have to say, it really depends on what you plan to do with your Book. I mean, if you are the non-gaming, non-3D-rendering, or otherwise graphics guy, you can probably care less about the GPU.
And seriously, who in the name of Jebus, buys a 13" MBP who does the aforementioned things ?!
All this aside, the Intel HD3000, while a step down from the 320m is not THAT terrible. You can even do some light gaming on it, and everything office-related will be a non-issue. Just try to think back to the time before Oct 2008.
When ALL MacBooks solely relied on Intel Graphics GMA 950 or X3100. THESE were REALLY crappy and a long long long shot behind the curve.
I could still do about anything on my 2006 MacBook. Except for gaming of course 😀
The Mid 2010 13" MacBook Pro is perfect for playing things like StarCraft II and Source Engine games like Portal or Team Fortress 2. Will it play either game maxed out on highest graphics? No. But with a 13" 1280x800 screen, it performs quite well, and if that's all the gaming you'll be doing, then it's fine for that. The HD 3000 is worse with said games. Granted, only by a hair, but when graphics are more of a bottleneck than CPUs are, and when today's Intel IGP barely matches yesterday's NVIDIA IGP, that's something to negatively remark on, especially at the obscene price point that the 13" MacBook Pro has always been at. It's their biggest rip-off by far as far as Mac sales go. I'm not saying that the HD 3000 is terrible. It is unarguably an upgrade from the GeForce 9400M IGP used two refreshes ago, but the fact that it is a step-down from what I could've gotten two weeks ago for the same price (solely in terms of graphics performance), no thanks. That's the same reason why I won't be buying the lower-end 15" MacBook Pro of current; the 6490M is a downgrade from the GT 330M. If I'm paying over a thousand for a MacBook Pro, whether it's 13", 15" or 17", it better be better than any MacBook Pro before it in every way. Otherwise it seems like I'm being cheated somehow.
Just like you said: AT THEIR HOME. There is no, as in zero, problem to have an external drive hooked up to your book at home. At no loss on convenience. While on the road, however, where you seldom to never need it, the additional weight + size of an internal SuperDrive are almost always a cause of inconvenience.
For one, Superdrives don't add much weight. I've removed them from both MacBooks and MacBook Pros. Hell, I swapped one out of a Mid 2010 13" MacBook Pro just the other week. They don't add much weight at all really. On the road, it makes my Mac a portable DVD player. While I might not need it at home, I usually need it where I'm going, and the point is that having to carry it somewhere or buying another external ODD to keep at my second location in terms of inconvenience far outweighs the one of lugging it around. Having it on the 15" is clearly not preventing us from having quad-core CPUs nor discrete graphics. It is on the 13", but seeing as more people buy that model and more people would rather keep the ODD than not (regardless of how infrequently it is used), I'd say that it won't be removed as there's no reason to. Want a thinner computer? They make the MacBook Air for that, and nowadays it performs just as well (better if you're comparing the current 13" MacBook Air to the Mid 2010 13" MacBook Pro)
Apple will get Blu-Ray someday. It's caught on pretty damn good so far.
I doubt they'll adopt Blu-Ray burning, but a BD-ROM/DVD+/-R DL combo drive wouldn't be an unreasonable thing for them to include. From what I've heard, it's the burning of Blu-Ray discs that is where the "big bag of hurt" comes into play. Stupid Sony.
Get what you need now, Apple is always going to be coming out with newer and better models. Unless your rich, you can't keep up. So just get what you need and don't worry about it.
Well, buying at the beginning of the refresh cycle tends to afford you more time with the machine before it is eventually left out of minimum system requirements (5-6 years down the line), which maximizes the use of the money used to buy the damn thing. But otherwise, waiting for a specific refresh for things you are not aware of yet is silly. There will always be improvements in the next refresh. Granted, this one is more substantial than any MacBook Pro update has ever been.
The MBP's graphics cards, even in the 13" are hardly "crippling" the computer.
They're not crippling. But they're pretty pitiful for a laptop costing anywhere from $1,000 (low-end academic discount) to $1,400 (high end, no academic discount).