So I want to know if you can defend iOS/iPhones without sounding like a fanboy. That means you need to have facts to back up all your statements, and give legitimate reasons as to why iOS and or iPhones are better than Windows Phone, or Android, or BlackBerry ect...
No, because "defending" against a flawed premise is a waste of time.
1. The assertion is already made that anyone who disagrees with the premise is a "fanboy." So anyone who disagrees has pretty much already lost the "argument."
2. There is nothing to "defend." People have preferences for what platform they choose, and that should be adequate reason enough for them to buy it. If a particular OS or phone or whatever does what that one user needs, then that is the "better" platform
for them. End of discussion.
Once someone makes a decision - Blackberry, Windows Phone, iOS, Android, PalmOS, Symbian, whatever - then
absolutely no one can say they have the moral high ground if they try to berate that person for making that decision. There's only one criteria: are they happy with their phone? If the answer is yes, then there is no valid reason at all to push them onto something else.
If you're
that guy who does that all the time, or demands that people "defend" their choices, then you're one of two things. Either You're not convinced that YOU made the right choice and are overcompensating for it. Or, you're a fanboy.