@gudaev
Hello. Lucky for you in finding this old thread, because I was the "sacrificial lamb" for you!
There is a really easy solution... (Assuming you have a fairly modern and similar setup to mine.)
iMazing lets you transfer music, files, messages, apps and more from any iPhone, iPad, or iPod to a computer, Mac or PC. Manage and backup your iOS device simply without iTunes. (was DiskAid)
imazing.com
This has been one of the best applications I have ever purchased. Solved all of my problems!
(To be clear... My use-case is shooting photos and video on my iPhone 11 Pro Max and iPhone 15 Pro Max in either iOS Camera app or Cinema P3 Pro app and then trying to download the media onto my MacBook Pro M3 Max or an older MacBook Pro.)
Only issue I have had is that apparently the USB connection on my Mac "expires" or something, and so a handful of times I had to re-boot my Mac and iPhone before doing a download. But out of downloading Terabytes of video, only had to do that a few times if the initial connection acted up.
This startup business is super responsive when it comes to tech support, and you can't beat the price.
I use iMazing to...
1.) Download photos/video from my iPhones to my MacBook Pro.
2.) Upload music/videos to my iPhones from my MacBook Pro
3.) Upload music/videos to my iPad from my MacBook Pro
It allows me to NOT have to store my life on "The Cloud" - which makes me cringe, and will never happen in my life!!
I think there is a free-trial.
This solved my problem, and should solve your problem too as long as you have a modern OS and your hardware is functioning.
Good luck!!