You see this is what worries me, this often seems to not be the case (at least with most of the girls i've met / relationships I've seen). A-lot of people have this disturbing way of going from nothing to full on committed relationship in just a few weeks time.
I don't know if it's societal or what but I feel like it's very hard to find something between committed future focused relationship and "I just want to get in your pants".
Maybe I'm just meeting the wrong people