I've called myself a tech whore several times on here.
And some others have done the same about themselves.
If the mods censor the word, they are essentially stating that intent doesn't matter, much less textual context. And if that were to happen, that would go against their current modus operandi when handling complaints etc. They would be setting themselves up for further problems down the forum road, in my opinion.
Intent matters and it matters a lot.
The mods can't possibly get every intent right of posts that are made. There are subtle nuances that often times don't always translate properly to text. That is why it is so important to handle admonishment on a case by case basis, where the powers that be can assess intent based on the post(s) involved (noting proper context), along with posting history of the forum(s) members involved etc.
If any forum member is using the word whore to attack another forum member, the post involved should be reported so that the mods can address the situation. Problem solved.
For all intent and purposes, this forum is a place to communicate in an anonymous manner. Most of us don't personally know each forum member we respond to. As such, it can be easy (at times) to misunderstand one another. That is why I do my best to take in to consideration the posting history of the member involved. Is he or she purposefully trying to insult me, (directly or passive aggressively) or is the forum member not fully understanding what I am trying to convey?
If an anonymous forum member seeks to attack me, that isn't going to truly bother me, outside of reporting the post(s), so that the forum can keep operating as it should.
Life is too short to give a rude anonymous stranger (on the forum) power over me, by allowing their words to cause me grief or angst in some way, thus affecting my forum life and personal life. If that were to ever happen, that would be a sign for me to take a step back from the internet for a while, and get proper balance back in my life.