Most of my friends are the same way. They have nothing real going on in their lives to speak of, yet they always seem like they have too much to do to call me or hang out with me, even when the business they are tending to is social.
It's not real. Chances are they have very little going on in their lives, and if you are like me, you are the furthest ahead out of your group of friends. I get the feeling many of my friends are jealous of what I have (my own place, strong steady relationship with my girlfriend, money, self-employment..) and even if that is not the case, if they don't have time for me, I certainly don't have time for them. I have more free time than probably anyone you know, but I still refuse to waste it on those who aren't willing to make time for me. I have better things to do, and I do have a few friends (read: real friends) who enjoy hanging out with me regularly.
Maybe you just need to step into a different spectrum light
i read you post regarding the hot macbook pro, as I have the same problem with mine. I think they all just get hot. very hot. In any case I found this post... I would suggest searching for spiritual source to fill the void that we all "human vessels" have. as it is our nature to be more than physical.
read more here: http://www.godsimmediatecontact.com/earth_level.html
Im not a QUIN YAN MASTER or whatever this site is but the levels are relevant and vary, I have my own 3 levels,
but it link is only to expand on the concept.