I'm in the same boat, bud. A, B, C, completely true, and girls who talk about getting plastered over the weekend make me lose respect.
I'm 19, and I don't like the idea of dating for fun. I'll date when I'm seriously looking for marriage; and since I can't honestly support a wife right now, and all the girls in my age bracket are very into "cool" and "hot" guys...meh.
I'll wait till I find a girl that can appreciate a maybe cute (I've been told that I'm not bad looking but I really have no idea how girls percieve me), smart nerd that can support her and respects her. If I have to wait until the girls around me get older before I get a girlfriend, well, so be it.
If it is about confidence, I'm doomed, as Asperger's Syndrome grants me the inability to read body languageOr I'll just wait until I find someone who appreciates me anyhow.
Wow, this is me to a tee. Even the Asperger's. Spooky.