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14 years old and an iphone 6...

i didnt even have a cellphone at 14..

good luck buddy..

I'm sorry, but I'd have to disagree. Statements like these are simply too subjective especially when it comes to technology. Things like cellphone and computer are becoming important tools in our day to day routine. One can not simply make statement like this because one was born in different era and the availability just simply isn't there at the time. I see many people argued that what is the reason to give a teenager a cellphone, but a similar argument can be made when electricity was very discovered and used, many people also didn't think it was necessary and they simply like their old ways of living. I think it's often unfair for adults (parents) to throw similar statement at kids, it's not their fault that they were born in a different era.

I often tell my wife that kids these days are lucky to have these super faster internet. I remember having to use the good old dial-up in the middle of the night to go online just so I won't occupy the phone line during the day.

My daughter had her iPhone 6 stolen from her backpack this evening while she was doing band practice. Come to find out, find my iPhone was off. It was dead when it got stolen. I turned on my find my iPhone on mine and was able to put her phone in lost mode which means it will alert the person who has the phone to call my number once it connects to the Internet. The phone is password protected and has Touch ID so how can the person who took it connect to the net with a passcode?!. What can I do as it really hurts to lose a $800 phone just like that. It was a birthday gift for my daughters 14th birthday. Any ideas?

Really sorry to hear about this. But I think this will serve as a very very good warning for your young daughter to always err on the side of caution and be mindful about things and her surrounds. Too often I find teenagers gets caught in the moment and they tends to ignore and forgot about the potential danger. It's okay to have fun, and I'm all for it. But it won't hurt to keep a look out for potential danger and stay aware of her surrounds.

As for the phone, I'd suggest that you go find an iPhone 5 or iPhone 5S for now. They are just as good and they will last her for a while.
 
These people with oh i didnt have a cellphone when i was 14 are idiots. Everyday there are things moving and changing all the time. Sure you couldve been 14 back in 60s or 70s. Cell ohone or lets say smartphones have become essential these days. Phones could be for communication or other purposes. Is it possible to do anything without a smartphone these days?

Don't listen to those guys OP
 
My daughter had her iPhone 6 stolen from her backpack this evening while she was doing band practice. Come to find out, find my iPhone was off. It was dead when it got stolen. I turned on my find my iPhone on mine and was able to put her phone in lost mode which means it will alert the person who has the phone to call my number once it connects to the Internet. The phone is password protected and has Touch ID so how can the person who took it connect to the net with a passcode?!. What can I do as it really hurts to lose a $800 phone just like that. It was a birthday gift for my daughters 14th birthday. Any ideas?

Did you pay with a credit card? If so, within 90 days they cover lost/stolen phones. At least that's what AmEx does.
 
These people with oh i didnt have a cellphone when i was 14 are idiots. Everyday there are things moving and changing all the time. Sure you couldve been 14 back in 60s or 70s. Cell ohone or lets say smartphones have become essential these days. Phones could be for communication or other purposes. Is it possible to do anything without a smartphone these days?

Don't listen to those guys OP

Why not?

At the end of the day, the OP made this thread asking for help, which comes with people's thoughts and opinions.

That's what the OP asked for.
 
I feel bad for her since she is sort of being punished for what someone else did, it wasn't her fault. What did the school say about it?

My daughter is 11 and has a 5s. Today kids really need cell phones because I just don't trust people. If she ever misses the bus or wants to come home from a friends house I want her to be able to contact me.
 
I'm a 13 year old and I have a Oneplus One.
Now, I know there is going to be one person criticising me on this topic, but hear me out before you chat *****.

I'm on my phone all day, yes. But who isn't? I'm actually more productive because I carry a phone wherever I go but I don't carry a book since my jeans cannot accommodate one. I love reading books but I can't stand paperbacks.

Some other people say that they don't need a phone for emergencies because nothings going to happen to them. Guess what happened a few weeks ago? My friend started having anxiety attacks and I couldn't leave them on their own to walk home so I had to walk with them. I had to call my mum and tell them I was going to be late.

My phone hasn't impacted my parents relationship with me. In fact it's made us closer.

So please, don't chat if you don't know a responsible teen. One teen doing bad things doesn't mean that all teens are doing it.
 
These people with oh i didnt have a cellphone when i was 14 are idiots. Everyday there are things moving and changing all the time. Sure you couldve been 14 back in 60s or 70s. Cell ohone or lets say smartphones have become essential these days. Phones could be for communication or other purposes. Is it possible to do anything without a smartphone these days?

Don't listen to those guys OP

Idiots? Seriously? Cell phones are essential and are needed. I'll give you that. Smartphones? Not so much. Personally, and this is just me, I'd never get my kid a smartphone. A 20 dollar non fancy cell phone to call and check in and let me know everything is ok? Sure. Calling and letting me know "hey I have band practice today at 4" That I can understand. But a 700 dollar smartphone? Hell no. But again, that's just me. I still feel terrible for the OP and really do hope things work out. It sucks having your items stolen from you by some lowlife chumpstain.
 
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So there's a big difference between a 14 year old and a 16 year old having an iPhone? Oh please.

So just because you didn't have a cellphone when you were 14, don't be trolling on other people's threads saying that because tbh the bs everyone is talking about kids with iPhones is just pissing us off.

Actually, there is.

At certain ages people go through things and start to realise the financial meaning of things. For example, a 16-18 year old probably wouldn't leave a £600 phone in a bag unattended for long enough that it could be removed.

A 14 year old doesn't yet have the mindset to associate "that item cost £600" with "I should probably keep that with me".

If you had insurance, it probably wouldn't cover this scenario anyway. Most, if not all, policies don't cover unattended theft in a public place (or a place other than your home).

It's not whether a 14 year old should have a phone. It's whether a 14 year old has the responsibility/mindset to realise that the phone is valuable, and should be treated differently to everything else (e.g. not left in a backpack where it could be stolen).
 
If you lose hope in retrieving the phone after a few days, do this: Call your carrier and report the phone stolen, tell them you want to blacklist the IMEI. This will render the phone useless in the USA.

*Note: Only do this once you're sure you won't be able to retrieve the phone. Blacklisting the IMEI is not reversible (for the most part). At least this way you'll be out of the phone but you can ensure that no one else will use it.

Having lost mode on can be useful, maybe offer a reward in the message. "50.00 Dollar reward for whoever returns the phone."

Theres a plethora of things you can still do, but once you lost complete hope I would suggest you have the IMEI blacklisted -- and leave iCloud lock enabled forever. No one will ever be able to use that phone for other than parts.

Off-topic comment: So these are the type of things parents have to go through! :eek:
 
Actually, there is.

At certain ages people go through things and start to realise the financial meaning of things. For example, a 16-18 year old probably wouldn't leave a £600 phone in a bag unattended for long enough that it could be removed.

A 14 year old doesn't yet have the mindset to associate "that item cost £600" with "I should probably keep that with me".

If you had insurance, it probably wouldn't cover this scenario anyway. Most, if not all, policies don't cover unattended theft in a public place (or a place other than your home).

It's not whether a 14 year old should have a phone. It's whether a 14 year old has the responsibility/mindset to realise that the phone is valuable, and should be treated differently to everything else (e.g. not left in a backpack where it could be stolen).

Well to be honest, I wouldn't do yoga with my phone in my pocket for obvious reasons. And an 18 year old would think the same.
 
Its not just about tech now vs tech in the past.

Some people have uneducated slow to develop kids, some have geniuses.

A 14 year old with internet access is smarter than a 17 year old who was raised on a farm.

A 16 year old boy is equal to a 14 year old girl in maturity development.

So these ages are arbitrary and dependent on specific cultural elements. Not all people of certain ages are the same in all places.

Some are less responsible than others and its not just about age.
 
Why not?

At the end of the day, the OP made this thread asking for help, which comes with people's thoughts and opinions.

That's what the OP asked for.

He didn't ask for help on raising his kid. He asked for help and options getting the phone back. The only mistake he made (based on the responses here) was giving too much information. Should have left out all of the info about when and where it was lost and he wouldn't have been judged. Lesson learned, perhaps.
 
Well to be honest, I wouldn't do yoga with my phone in my pocket for obvious reasons. And an 18 year old would think the same.

Then maybe you're the exception to the rule. I assume by being on here you're rather tech savvy, and probably more responsible than average when it comes to tech stuff.

I'm not saying all 14 years olds are the same. That's a judgement call for the parents to make. It's not the news the op wanted, but it's a harsh lesson to learn when your child is responsible enough for something - and leaving an expensive gadget unattended in a bag shows that they were not yet responsible enough for it. Expensive mistake? Yes. Lesson for the future, maybe. Worth dwelling on? Probably not.
 
Then maybe you're the exception to the rule. I assume by being on here you're rather tech savvy, and probably more responsible than average when it comes to tech stuff.

I'm not saying all 14 years olds are the same. That's a judgement call for the parents to make. It's not the news the op wanted, but it's a harsh lesson to learn when your child is responsible enough for something - and leaving an expensive gadget unattended in a bag shows that they were not yet responsible enough for it. Expensive mistake? Yes. Lesson for the future, maybe. Worth dwelling on? Probably not.
In pe I'd take my phone but it's too big for my pockets now. So I got a bag with a locked pocket.
 
Actually, there is.

At certain ages people go through things and start to realise the financial meaning of things. For example, a 16-18 year old probably wouldn't leave a £600 phone in a bag unattended for long enough that it could be removed.

A 14 year old doesn't yet have the mindset to associate "that item cost £600" with "I should probably keep that with me".

If you had insurance, it probably wouldn't cover this scenario anyway. Most, if not all, policies don't cover unattended theft in a public place (or a place other than your home).

It's not whether a 14 year old should have a phone. It's whether a 14 year old has the responsibility/mindset to realise that the phone is valuable, and should be treated differently to everything else (e.g. not left in a backpack where it could be stolen).

There are just too many assumptions being made here. I guess nobody was ever in band...

It's pretty typical to leave your backpack or back either on the back of your seat or under it. I wouldn't consider this "unattended". When in the middle of rehearsal, it's pretty easy for a person to swipe a bag. Could have been as a joke, on a dare, whatever. Our wind ensemble was about 300 members; needless to say it got pretty loud. I would not have noticed if people were stealing things out of my backpack 100%.

Regardless, I am unsure why so many people are here to judge. The OP was looking for people, perhaps with experience having lost their device, on how to try and get it back. The fact that people are so focused on the age of the person who the device was stolen from shows their own level of maturity rather clearly.
 
A couple of notes:

It's an expensive item that people watch and want. It never leaves your site. The backpack stays with you where ever you go or it's in a case around your neck.

If not, get a cheaper phone like the 4S.

ALWAYS WRITE A CONTACT NUMBER AND TAPE IT TO THE BACK OF THE PHONE INCASE THE BATTERY RUNS OUT.
 
A couple of notes:

It's an expensive item that people watch and want. It never leaves your site. The backpack stays with you where ever you go or it's in a case around your neck.

If not, get a cheaper phone like the 4S.

ALWAYS WRITE A CONTACT NUMBER AND TAPE IT TO THE BACK OF THE PHONE INCASE THE BATTERY RUNS OUT.
Who's going to exercise with a a backpack?
 
The OP was looking for people, perhaps with experience having lost their device, on how to try and get it back. The fact that people are so focused on the age of the person who the device was stolen from shows their own level of maturity rather clearly.

If you are calling me immature, just come out and say it rather than resorting to snide remarks.

So you'd be happy leaving your £600 in a bag where anyone could just take it out and walk off with it? And no, most insurance policies would not cover it. As far as they are concerned, having an item taken from a bag which is out of sight to the point which you wouldn't see someone remove an item from it is unattended.
 
If you are calling me immature, just come out and say it rather than resorting to snide remarks.

So you'd be happy leaving your £600 in a bag where anyone could just take it out and walk off with it? And no, most insurance policies would not cover it. As far as they are concerned, having an item taken from a bag which is out of sight to the point which you wouldn't see someone remove an item from it is unattended.
If you read the post correctly you'd see she had rehearsals so she had to leave her phone behind.
 
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