This article correctly called out the two scenarios where this is currently happening in the US. Snoody people and adolescents.
Admittedly, I'd rather chat with someone who has an iPhone, however, I have never nor will shut down a conversation because of their phone choice.
My teenage daughters have confirmed for me however, that this is a real phenomenon. Even the shoe analogy wasn't comparable enough, because phones = communication... And lots of it.
What to do... I would strongly encourage anyone being affected by this to do what I've done with family and friends... Get an agnostic messaging platform to communicate through. Everyone in my circles has been highly receptive of Whatsapp.
If friends are unwilling to do that, then perhaps it's time to move on 🤷🏾♂️