I get what you're saying... and I agree in principle... but in many cases I've heard, it's not cut and dry like that.
Guy and girl are drunk, Girl teases guy, both flirting, both get touchy/feely, both get undressed and huggy, but girl hesitates at actual sex... but does not forcefully say no.... she's like 'I'm not ready'. he's like 'I think we are'... she then pushes away a bit, he continues to see if she'll change her mind, but she then touches more and gets into it, and they both have sex. She enjoys it the whole time.
Remember the GUY is drunk too - both aren't in their right mind.
I can understand a guy who physically assaults a woman, and her cries of 'No, no, no!' and he continues... but BOTH seem to be prosecuted the same way, which is wrong.
I've had many situations where I've been touched inappropriately by drunk women and fended them off. It was extremely hard to fend off some sober women when I was drinking. As a guy, I can't do anything. I've got to take it and laugh it off. It's very sexist and wrong.