To my mind, Apple Nerd (and nerd in general) is a good thing. Fanboy is not. A fanboy is blind to problems. A nerd can still acknowledge that issues like the GPUs going to the ******* on 2011 MBPs or Touch IC chips on iPhones breaking regularly is pretty ****. Actually caring about Apple means wanting them to be the best they can be, which includes both being happy for their successes and critically reflecting on their mistakes, and hopefully, as the voice of the community, showing that we want them to do better. And doing what we can for that cause as well, sending feedback reports through the proper channels about bugs or creating a nice community on places like MR to foster a positive image of Apple enthusiasts who help each other out and welcome everyone, etc.
God bless Hair Force One. Unfortunately I have no selfies.... Will emails from both do?