Bern said:
I'm prejudice simply because I don't want to eat a meal across from a woman breast feeding her baby?
Well, if she's at your table you could politely ask her to stop, you could also choose another table, read a newspaper, stack napkin holders into a wall.
Your right to not be offended has little weight because it conflicts so easily with others' rights and because you can choose not to be offended or you can remove yourself from the situation.
Your right to wave your arms only extends to my nose.
Bern said:
Well the question is "Does a nursing baby offend you?
My reply is "yes it does". How can it be that my finding it offensive is egotistical yet the responses to my initial reply are not? Is telling somebody they have no right to feel the way they do not egotistical?
You have every right to go: "ewwww." However, you don't have the right to demand the woman across from you stop because she's infringing upon your rights. You don't have the right not to be offended, but you have every right to have an opinion and a physical reaction.
Think of a vegetarian who sits down at a deli. Across from her a man eats a steak sandwhich, a very rare steak sandwhich. Now her reaction can be disgust, but she cannot demand that the man stop eating his rare steak sandwhich, or cover his mouth, because her rights don't extend that far. He can be polite and wrap his sandwhich to go, or he can leave, but he doesn't have to. He can sit and merrily chomp on his sandwhich with gobs of A1 and fries to his heart's content.
Do you really want people to be able to demand others change simply to protect them from their fears and their hangups?