That's interesting because I look at it completely from the opposite angle. While I do say that I first wanted a black border around the screen (I feel it can make things stand out a bit more particularly when watching video) I didn't want it to be gloss black. Having the gloss of the display and the gloss of the border (in my mind) makes it look like the $499 consumer grade notebooks from Compaq (HP still brands some consumer junk as Compaq), Toshiba, Asus, etc. All it needs is a few blue/purple LEDs to add that finishing touch, lol. The gloss just makes it look like cheap consumer crap.
The silver bezel on the matte display looks fine although I must say that that black gasket around the edge subtracts from what would be a nice clean bezel. That said, I'm MUCH more concerned about the display itself than the aesthetics of the bezel. In that category it's really not even a question. The matte display is superior in accuracy, contrast detail, and consistency across a wider range of lighting conditions.