iPad 1 here. Crashes all the time. Safari is the biggest culprit. Opening multiple tabs consecutively causes this almost 100% of the time. Otherwise it's random in apps, gets annoying though.
We held (wife, son and I) on to one of our two iPad 1's after the purchase of two iPad2's at launch (one for wife and I). The iPad 1 is for our son and we also use it in the field for our business. Yesterday, I pulled out the iPad 1 (it had been a month or so since used) and removed all unnecessary apps--my son is 7, so his games are still there. A couple of 'office/productivity' apps and DJay (we run an A/V production company). Everything else was taken off the iPad as we are getting ready for a trip down to Vegas...I wanted to free up a bunch of room to load some of my ripped DVDs for our son's entertainment.
I don't use Safari. My preference is iCab. Second browser choice, Atomic. However...on my iPad 1, I've found the MOST stable browser(s) to be Maven and Mercury. Opera is pretty damn good too (as far as minimal crashing). On our two iPad 2's...I've had zero issues with crashing on any of these choices. Again, number one (and 90% usage) choice is iCab. No issues with crashing of other apps either...games, office, etc. The ONE app that does crash on both systems (for me) is my daily RSS choice--"The Early Edition 2". I love EE, have used it since it first dropped in the market, Early Edition 1. It does crash, probably once or twice a week and I use it 8-10 hours per week. Not a big issue.
Last night...after clearing out my iPad 1...keeping stock apps and a couple browsers, couple dozen games, and a few productivity apps...it felt damn good! I watched an entire movie (Midnight Express....Phenomenal Flick by the way

) on Netflix without an issue, not a single glitch. Surfing on Maven and Mercury, NO crashes...and my son played a good 45 minutes of everything from Cut the Rope to PvZ--Dungeon Hunter2 to Real Steal. He had zero issues. Not sure what worked, what didn't...BUT, all this to let you know I DID in fact reset and restore the iPad before cleaning it out. It's running iOS 5.01
I was actually considering selling it to make room for at least one of the upcoming iPad 3s....BUT, I've reconsidered. I'm going to keep at least one of each of them moving forward. I'm really impressed how well the iPad 1 continues to hang in there--for my son's basic usage anyway. Obviously, if you are more of a "Power User", YMMV.
Yes. To the point that I am becoming less inclined to ever buy a new one. It's very frustrating, especially as the local Genius Bar guy tried to sell me some bullcrap about memory usage and multi-tasking.
iOS 6 better fix it. Come to that, if they lock me out of iOS 6 because I have a first-gen iPad, I'll be looking at non-Apple alternatives. This isn't a knee-jerk reaction or hating. It's the only sensible step given how much the utility of my iPad is diminished by this behavior.
Really? Seriously? Have you looked at the "non-Apple" alternatives "Update" history/frequency...or ACTUAL availability? MOST 'Droid tabs are STILL waiting for ICS Update answers...as well as their phones. So many still running old 2.xx versions. And ICS has been out for what...3 months? Maybe 4...Apple updates their OS simultaneously...throughout the line, at the same time. So features won't be available to older hardware variants. It makes sense! Technology marches on!!! It's totally, 100% up to you whether or not to update to the latest iOS version. It's not mandatory, never has been. AND, to date, we ALL know that slow-downs can and do occur in some cases. With this in mind, aren't you better off to forgo iOS6 forward? Obviously, some of the new features will tempt you...but in order to take advantage of them, invest in the new hardware. You can still command a really decent price on the used market for your original iPad. They've bottomed out at around 300 bucks! That's amazing (to me) that you can recoup 60-70% (if you originally bought refurbished) of your investment 2 years later! Just awesome!!!
That's one very cool 'feature' of these iOS devices. I've found the same with each iPhone variant. I've been able to update yearly through my service with the subsidy (I've got a half dozen iPhones for our employees on a business acct)...so I've also sold the predecessor as I upgrade my wife and I's phones. From the iPhone 4, 18 months old...I got 375 on Craigslist within an hour> Bought my 4s for 299! Un-Real!
...sorry for the length, but I actually DO believe what you're considering IS a "Knee Jerk reaction." "Hating"? Not so much...grab yourself a Droid tab (I have a Galaxy and Xoom)...then you're truly find out what "Hating" means when they release Devil's Food Cupcake...or whatever 5.0 is going to be called
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