If I were you, I wouldn’t be asking the internet which is better to take the XR or XS in size , I would make that decision personally by handling both those phones in the store if you have the opportunity, you’re the only one that would be able to make that decision, being everyone has different hand sizes.Hey,
I like to downgrade from my iPhone xs max because it's to big for me.
Is it better to take the XR or XS after the Max.
This is the answer. We can't decide here for you, you really need to try it for yourself.Go to a store & decide for yourself. How are we meant to know what is most suitable for you?