So we need an Apple Nanny State?
If there is a crucial security patch I am not going to ignore it! And anyone who does needs to take responsibility for their consequences.
What did the forced download of the U2 album have to do with crucial security?
I think it was a test run, by Apple, to see how far they could stretch this. If they'd got a universal passive fanboy response, then the coast would be clear to force download anything they like. But it backfired, and Bono rightly apologised for the 'spam'.
Does this sound Big Brother paranoid? Apple is not your family, they don't care about you, they care about selling you stuff and making obscene profits, they force download so the can tell their shareholders that there is a record take-up of their new OS.
Our rights are being constantly eroded in the name of protecting us. Do we want to be 'protected' by self serving governments and big business? Or do we want to be informed, so we can make decisions and be responsible?