And personally, I'd rather my post get a little red circle beneath it than recive a quote-reply that specifically calls me out.
To me the problem with a "disagree" option (albeit it's much less of a problem here than other places I've seen it a 'downvote') is that it's easy to just "la la la I'm not listening you're wrong". Forming an actual coherent argument to disagree with someone takes more effort.
Other sites (notably tech-focused sites) like /. and Lobste.rs use
reasoned downvotes: you can't just "down vote" or "disagree". You have to specify
why (from a choice of several usually: 'troll', 'incorrect', 'off topic', etc). My understanding of the logic here is that if you actually
disagree, you can put that disagreement into words to explain your view, whereas if someone e.g. commented a tired disproven trope, you'd use e.g. the 'troll' option - responding is unlikely to be productive, and it's not so much that you disagree with the view but that the post is not genuine.
But my experience with how downvotes (actual unreasoned downvotes, not just "disagree") on a orange-themed site that shall remain nameless has conditioned me to never downvote anything.
IMO if a post is just a difference of opinion, it has a place in a conversation. If it's just a hot take based in tin foil conspiracies a coke addict would be jealous of, it doesn't, and a better option would be to just flag it.
Just my ฿0.02
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Besides, only the person being down voted sees who actually downvoting them
... I definitely see all the people who downvoted comments in the News threads.