Ex GF with drug problems, help.

[rei101]

Sounds like you're hung up on this girl, not wanting to let go and making up excuses to be involved in her life; assigning pure motivations to yourself as a hero and savior when in fact your behavior is a little creepy. Add to that you're more than 10 years older than she is and that doubles the creep factor.

My friend, I am backing up but it takes time and I mean days now. I was in a position where "I can do help her" to "well, lets see if I could be of any help".

She was the person I wanted to marry and we had an awesome beginning but things started to happen. She was such hard worker, I believe she still is.

We started to have problem and I believed it was me, not tolerant and things like that. A friend of mine told em that she may well be dealing with borderline disorder and I took a look and... all of the above. At first I believed she had hitrionism, histrionic behavior.

Any way, sharing things here is making me more grounded. To the point that I actually do not give a damn anymore. This is the only life I have, if she comes, lets see her attitude. But I am pretty sure I will be in a totally different track since I am started now.

Thank you.