Have you tried using your wife’s X? I don’t mean to make a pest of myself but so far I’ve seen two iPhone OLED screens that hurt my eyes and now have one that doesn’t seem to be causing me any problems so far. I have regular migraines, optical migraines and seizure migraines that mess up my speech (look up footage of newscasters who suddenly start babbling in gibberish—that’s what happens to me). I’ve been on my Max all day watching a movie, reading this forum, reading emails, making videos, taking pictures, making a Memoji, etc.
It could be your wife got lucky in the display lottery like I did and got one that doesn’t trigger her.
I’m a little worried that my husband might start having problems with his display. But so far he says he’s fine. He also gets optical migraines and regular ones. But he says he’s not had any problems with these OLED displays.
It’s tricky because this isn’t just an eye problem. It’s a nervous system issue.