This is really well written. Way better than “Facebook must die”. I’m curious though, what do you have against Facebook that made you delete in 2012 and not return? I totally get not liking the network effect, but it seems as if there is something deeper and more personal that made you leave.
Thank you. This post didn't age as well as I intended but I'll quote what I think is still the most relevant bit -
https://adamchandler.me/blog/2013/07/02/im-quitting-twitter-but-its-much-more-than-that/
For almost all purposes, this blog is for me. It’s a time capsule where my space isn’t rented but is paid for at $9.99 each month to give me the space to store files, blog and share my stories with the world. That’s the purpose of this blog. It’s my space. There are no advertisers and very little risk of my blog getting bought out or going under due to a lack of VC funding or failed monetization strategy. It’s nice that others read what I have to say but it really is my space on the web.
What initially turned me off to social media startups (coming from SF) is the business requirement that they had to be free in order to reach critical mass and I was seeing already the danger of that. I have zero expectations of my comment on MacRumors to live on forever but, life moments I do and I didn't trust Facebook or any other free social media startup to be my steward and keeper and to consider my moments as important as I do.
The other issue came with the mass-usage...this wasn't a "my band was cool before they got a record deal" sort of emotion that some people go through when something goes mainstream but prior to what we saw in the 2016 election and since, I was already spending a huge portion of my day shutting down fake news from my non-technical family members who were just starting to join Facebook.
This Snopes post from 2004 was an early thing that was shared over email in 'all contacts forwards' -
https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/carjackers-leaving-flyers-100-bills-car-windows/
...and I saw these posts starting to make their way onto Facebook and the network effect allowed moms and granddads to share them not only with their friends but in groups as well and where an email was limited to your contacts list on Yahoo! mail, Facebook didn't have the limit so long as the post was public. I spent WAY too much time policing my family's misinformation posts.
Then my sisters who were born in 1996 and 2000 joined Facebook and they immediately Liked about 500+ brands and their entire news feed was advertisements that they actually opted into receiving and it just sort of hit me like a brick.
This is the largest advertising machine full of people who did not grow up knowing how to use the Internet and now they're all in one walled garden sharing fake information, liking advertisements and feeding a machine that's sole purpose was to extract every spare minute they had to monetize those eyeballs
and when I read a quote from Zucerkberg that Facebook would always be free, that was the straw that broke the back. They never intended to charge people in order to NOT exploit their users. It was going to keep growing and getting more invasive.
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Then (and I was totally wrong here), I remembered how fleeting Startups were. 5 years was a pretty good shelf life so I figured...FAcebook and Twitter were both about 5-7 years old at that point. How much longer did they actually have? Microsoft, Google and Yahoo had all contemplated purchasing Facebook and Twitter so how much longer would they be around anyway and "What's the harm in closing your account?" Boy was I wrong about that because little did I know that like utility companies, once normal people aka non-nerds get their hands on a cable TV subscription or phone line, they are very unlikely to shop around for another option. Some people overpay for car insurance for 25 years without thinking about it. Facebook is here to stay because non-nerds don't know any better.
Case in point, the people of Miyanmar think Facebook.com IS the Internet -
https://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-55929654 There is no other internet BUT Facebook.
So without government regulation just like tobacco in the 80s, Facebook's dominance will continue and I will continue to be the only person in my family who no one knows what I'm up to unless they visit my blog.
I've made my bed and now must lie in it.
Thanks for asking