As a serious amateur photographer... I totally agree that too many photographers focus on tech specs instead of thinking about creating compelling images.
Photography is ART. Art has nothing to do with megapixels. It's about conveying emotions and inspiring your viewers.
It's not that better technology has no role... just as with better canvas or paints for a painter... every piece of technology can be utilized by a good professional. It's just that the technology is certainly secondary to good artistic vision and excellent field skills. Only after you are truly a master of your craft does the technology start to make a (significant) difference.
Every time I see a soccer mom walking around with a huge DSLR with a stock lens on it and it set to Auto... I want to find out what salesman at Best Buy told her that was a good idea and kick him right in the nuts!
One thing I regularly tell people that are interested in my camera gear is: DONT BUY A DSLR UNLESS YOU WANT TO DO PHOTOGRAPHY AS AN ART FORM. A really good point and shoot will produce better pictures on Auto than a DSLR. And just as with this story, if you give a point and shoot to someone with good creative vision and is a master of their craft they can create spectacular photographs.
Anyway... this isn't going anywhere. If you want to get into photography... just start learning about how to take compelling pictures... even if all you have at your disposal is an iPhone...
Photography can be art or just capturing that "Kodak" moment. I agree, if your goal is to create art, don't like your equipment stop you but I wouldn't exactly concur that soccer moms or others alike shouldn't be toying around with DSLRs even on auto. If they want to capture their kids in action, the higher frames per second will help along with more flexibility in capturing low light images.