I hear you, and part of me wishes I'd bit the bullet, sold the 3GS and picked up a 4 last year like I was planning to...until Antennagate made me pause, and by then the backorder wait times killed my chances.
Although the 4S is a great upgrade coming from a 3GS, and I feel like I'm 95% sure to get one, I have a couple of nagging worries...
- Apple will bust out with the fabled iPhone 5 next year and make us "off-year" upgraders feel like crap again, except this time AT&T won't pull our upgrade eligibility ahead and we'll be stuck paying a lot more for the phone we felt we should have had this year.
- The competition from Android (and WP7) now is vastly fiercer than it was in 2009, and I find myself wondering what I'm missing. Wouldn't it be nice to just drag and drop files to the phone, enjoy a 4.5" screen, send HD video to my Samsung TV via Allshare...and so on?
But my wife is an avid Apple user, we've got an iPad at home and I've got three and a half years invested in the Apple mobile ecosystem. It makes just thinking about switching a tough call. And yet, I don't buy media from iTunes and I'm a dyed-in-the-wool PC user myself. I could keep my 3GS another year, but it's 27 months old and is showing (and feeling...and acting) its age. I'm torn.
I guess I'll have to make my mind up by Friday. And even if I do submit a pre-order, I'm going to keep one eye on the Nexus Prime announcement next week...just in case.
Good lord, it's like you read my mind and then typed it out...lol. This is EXACTLY how I feel, right down to the wife being a avid Apple user and me being a dyed-in-the-wool PC user. Reading that was like looking in a mirror.
I'll probably go ahead and upgrade, although I'm not pre-ordering on Friday. I'll wait for a few weeks, let the dust settle, and then make the final decision, but I'm fairly certain at this point that I'll stick with the 4S. The iPhone 4 design, while not always the most practical (higher probability of shattering the glass back), IS a great design (and beautiful). While I was one of those wishing for a redesign, now that I've had a night to sleep on it, I feel better about picking up the 4S. I use my camera on my 3GS every single day (in my job), so the better camera is a huge draw for me. And, since the design is the same, cases (which I always use) are readily available.