first dating,...

[dukebound85]

hang out at a park
drive-in
rollar skating
coffee shop
go up to some mountains and picnic


just some ideas

 

[Abstract]

Take her to dinner, then to a movie.

i like that. what kind of food and movie???

You didn't have that idea before you made this thread?



Oh, and a coffee shop is better than a bar. Cafés are conducive to talking, and are generally quieter. Oh, and they'll have little desserts and such that you can share with each other. It sounds boring, but it's safe.


Personally, I like the bowling idea, but make sure you whoop her ass so she knows who's boss. Then maybe taking her out to a really average restaurant, possibly even fast food. Scurry over to the nearest McDonalds for a McFlurry, and she's yours.

 

[GfPQqmcRKUvP]

i dont think it is a good idea to bring her home on first date. Negative.

And why the hell not?

If you must go the traditional route, go to a café where it is lively. A lounge sounds good, but do you really want to start off paying for everything and a big night out? It's awfully supplicating...

 

[After G]

Why don't you ask her where she wants to go?

 

[GfPQqmcRKUvP]

Why don't you ask her where she wants to go?

Because then you lack confidence and initiative. That is for later in the relationship. Don't overthink it.

 

[0098386]

Take her down to the creek. Jacobs Creek.

 

[shecky]

Because then you lack confidence and initiative.

as opposed to the confidence and initiative shown by asking a bunch of strangers on an internet tech forum what to do on a first date. 🙂

 

[Melrose]

And why the hell not?

If you must go the traditional route, go to a café where it is lively. A lounge sounds good, but do you really want to start off paying for everything and a big night out? It's awfully supplicating...

It depends entirely on the type of girl you're taking out, and the image you wish to present..

 

[Sesshi]

I for one can't wait to know how it went.

 

[northy124]

Take her to a bar then back to yours for a bit of you know😉.

 

[n00basaur]

Why don't you ask her where she wants to go?

Don't do this.


Decide on something that you want to do and go at it together. You need to be the leader. Don't do any of that sensitive 90's guy crap.

 

[northy124]

I asked a woman once were she would like to go and it worked in my favour it depends on the woman😀.

 

[nakamuramori2]

And why the hell not?

If you must go the traditional route, go to a café where it is lively. A lounge sounds good, but do you really want to start off paying for everything and a big night out? It's awfully supplicating...

it is a first date dude. you can plan out spending some big money on first date.

 

[da2005pizimp]

Don't do a movie, it doesn't make sense to take her to a place where you will not be paying attention to her at all. dinner would be good just not something high end and not something low end (ihop) and don't do something on a busy night where you can't hear each other. don't do a club, b/c once again you want to get to know her better not hear alot of loud music.

 

[Melrose]

AskMen.com probably has stuff about dating and what woman like... Mebbe try checking them out.

 

[GfPQqmcRKUvP]

it is a first date dude. you can plan out spending some big money on first date.

And then you can plan on being walked all over for the rest of a non-existent relationship. Be the leader, take her where you want to go and hope she likes it.