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AppleLover9o

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Aug 2, 2009
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This is not my FIRST first kiss, it's OUR first kiss..

We've been dating a month now, I'm trying to be slow with affection/ physical stuff... But I'm pretty sure I can do kiss her now :)

Any tips for making that approach?

My plan:

There is this park we go to quiet frequently, so I was thinking like.. While walking with her, and I don't need to be at the park, but it should be a park like setting I think. Stop, say wait.. Kinda look around for a second and be all.. Come here. Then just do it and then walk on :).

I'm rather introverted, as explained above, so this would catch her off guard, but she'd accept it, I think. Timing is everything.

So yea, tips?
 
Got that part :cool:

I'm 6'3" and she's 5'5"ish, should I pick her up? Would she like that? She's 18, so that may be like the "wow" thing to her.

For the record, I'm 19..

trust me do not pick here up. That different in height is not that bad. I do not pick up my GF who is 13" shorter than me. I am 6'4" and she is 5'3". She looks up and I bend a little bit and look down. It works great.
 
Don't pick her up. Just let it come natural. Yes, burshing teeth is excellent idea. Don't drool and RELAX. Can't stress this one enough. You can tell when your partner is kissing you and they are tense (and vice-versa). Nervous ok, tense, not ok.

Don't want to sound cliche-ish, but that first kiss will feel like as if the world stopped and everything turned gray. Except you two.
 

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Tell her she has something on her face, and that you need to lick it off.

But seriously, just look her in the eyes, smile, and slowly lean in.

Or get her absolutely wasted. Your choice obviously.
 
My tip is that this isn't something you can plan, use your intuition and play it by ear, the right time will come and make it happen. Use your guts! I mean what's the worst that can happen?
 
This thread is funny.

Just relax. The more you think about it, the weirder it will be. You don't define the terms. It does involve two people, after all. Just let it happen.
 
You are the man. Kiss her.

Don't make it anything wild. Just a polite small kiss.



...grab her ass....hahaha. Wait a little while before doing that. Might get a kiss and a bruised chin. :p
 
less tongue...

Don't use the tongue at all on your first kiss, unless you're both anticipating things to get hot and heavy.

And don't go so over bonkers wild with the peppermints either. It can be equally unpleasant if it's too strong.
 
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