I've been selected by a few good friends of mine who will be married in December to organize their bachelor party. They are a gay male couple and I'm excited about making these plans. However, I'm a bit lost as to the logistics. Traditionally, one doesn't go to a bachelor party with their future spouse. However, in this case that would mean two bachelor parties/events and would force the friends of both to choose which party to go to. Should I break tradition and plan one event for both guys?