I am however still missing my mpicc and automake, which were included in earlier version of XCode but were apparently dropped. I was hoping there might be a _second_ package much like the command line tools that I overlooked.
I don't have access to my Mac right now (nor did I upgrade to 4.3 yet), and can't find a list of the tools online. Either the package doesn't include them (Xcode after all doesn't use automake/autoconf and other such GNU tools, in favor of its xcodebuild system) or they aren't put in the PATH (could try updatedb/locate to find them).
Otherwise, the Command Line Tools package should be sufficient to install them from MacPorts.