I've got a bad feeling that in about 10 years from now that unless this issue is quickly corrected (with a very firm and guilt-free "so long, honey"), we'll be reading a newspaper headline:
The Daily Newspaper said:
Crazed wife burns down house to spite husband
...along with a quote from the police spokesperson: "Oh yeah, we've been to that address quite a few times in the past for all sorts of stuff. Address is on our dispatcher computer system's 'speed dial' feature. Well, since that address no longer exists, guess we can take it off the speed dial now."
Do not let this proceed any further to marriage, or the revenge she exacts during a subsequent divorce will be messy, expensive, and especially extra-painful.