Grrl question...

[redAPPLE]

If a gurl avoids looking at you in thr eyes?

what does that rather mean?

 

[mcrain]

If a gurl avoids looking at you in thr eyes?

what does that rather mean?

You're ugly, weird, or freakin' her out. Leave her alone.

(edit) I am only kidding.

 

[MacDawg]

I am actually going to give a serious response
Perhaps she is just shy

 

[dukebound85]

If a gurl avoids looking at you in thr eyes?

what does that rather mean?

Means she'd rather not talk to you

 

[techfreak85]

What is their personality? Are they a nice person generally? Maybe she likes you and is just shy.
If they are a all around mean person, she probably doesn't wanna talk to you.

Either way, she probably likes you, weather she realizes it or not.

 

[bartelby]

Maybe she doesn't like people who can't spell "girl"...

 

[redAPPLE]

Well ok i think differently so maybe i am weird. but sometimes she waves at me from afar...

Maybe she doesn't like people who can't spell "girl"...

Haha thanks for the smile.

 

[MacDawg]

Well ok i think differently so maybe i am weird. but sometimes she waves at me from afar...

Friendly at a distance... shy when up close

 

[techfreak85]

Well ok i think differently so maybe i am weird. but sometimes she waves at me from afar...

Ah, a true Mac user.

If she waves from you from afar, she probably like you and is just shy.

 

[redAPPLE]

Maybe she doesn't like people who can't spell "girl"...

Means she'd rather not talk to you

well that can be a valid reason

 

[dukebound85]

well that can be a valid reason

if she waves, do you wave first? or does she?

 

[redAPPLE]

Friendly at a distance... shy when up close

ok... So what do i do now

if she waves, do you wave first? or does she?

she waves first

 

[techfreak85]

Just be nice. Not overly nice and freak her out though.

 

[MacDawg]

ok... So what do i do now

Make her feel safe, comfortable and relaxed around you
Listen carefully and take an interest in her and her interests

 

[RamSlack]

Avoidance of eye contact under the premise of what I've read here usually indicates an underlying lack of self esteem. She will eventually start to make eye contact for longer periods of time as her comfort level with you grows or her interest in you wanes.

 

[redAPPLE]

What is their personality? Are they a nice person generally? Maybe she likes you and is just shy.
If they are a all around mean person, she probably doesn't wanna talk to you.

Either way, she probably likes you, weather she realizes it or not.

i don't know her. Just know her name. the problem is she is never alone to at least find out what type of person she is

 

[techfreak85]

i don't know her. Just know her name. the problem is she is never alone to at least find out what type of person she is

You don't have to be alone. That would freak her out even more IMO. Do you have any classes with her?

 

[MacDawg]

Maybe give a frame of reference by letting us know how old both of you are up front

 

[redAPPLE]

Just be nice. Not overly nice and freak her out though.

one time she needed a ride home but my best friend suddenly called and he needed my help asap. Beingy best friend i wanted to help him (u know how it is)

i told her i unfortunately have to go...

she sounded happy that i could drive her home...

 

[redAPPLE]

You don't have to be alone. That would freak her out even more IMO. Do you have any classes with her?

i unfortunately don't have any classes with her.

Well i have the impression that if she is shy it would be better to say something when she's not around other people/friends.

 

[RamSlack]

one time she needed a ride home but my best friend suddenly called and he needed my help asap. Beingy best friend i wanted to help him (u know how it is)

i told her i unfortunately have to go...

she sounded happy that i could drive her home...

My daughter just read this. Her words......"FAIL"

 

[techfreak85]

Maybe give a frame of reference by letting us know how old both of you are up front

He said drive her home... OP, you are at least 16?

 

[redAPPLE]

You don't have to be alone. That would freak her out even more IMO. Do you have any classes with her?

Maybe give a frame of reference by letting us know how old both of you are up front

20ties

 

[Compile 'em all]

If a gurl avoids looking at you in thr eyes?

what does that rather mean?

If she avoids making eye contact then she doesn't like you.

 

[redAPPLE]

You don't have to be alone. That would freak her out even more IMO. Do you have any classes with her?

My daughter just read this. Her words......"FAIL"

D'oh!

but i am a guy and i don't give up on friends.

i believe a guy should never give up on a best friend, right?


or did i really fail my small window of opportunity?