This morning I booted to my apple branded OS 9.2.1 CD. I was unable to see the SS drive at all. I will experiment some more to see if I can get the card to see OS9. Anyone think that if I had a CD of OS 9.2.2 things would be any different?
It probably won't be different. I think it's a trait of Wiebetech's firmwares (your card probably uses one of them). I have a 2-port card with a Sil3512 chip. I flashed it with the Wiebetech's firmware for Sil3512 and OS 9.2.2 couldn't see the drive connected to it. Every time I want to boot from that drive after using OS 9.2.2, I have to restart with Option key pressed.
AFAIK, the story of flashing a PC SATA card to be bootable for Mac involves firmwares from 2 companies. Wiebetech (now CRU) and Firmtek. And there are at least two ways for flashing it: using Silicon Image's (now Lattice Semiconductor) flasher from a PC or using Wiebetech's flasher from the Mac.
Wiebetech had 2 bootable firmwares, one for Sil3112 and another for Sil3512 (and it seems to work with Sil3114 also). They are OS X bootable only. The file sizes is small enough to be put into stock EEPROM chips in most cards.
Firmtek has several Mac-bootable firmwares but there is just one for Sil3112, for their own FirmTek SeriTek/1S2 card. This firmware is both OS X and OS 9 bootable but the size is too big to fit into EEPROM chips used in most cards. Moreover it only works with 3 models of EEPROM chips: Pm39LV040, MX29LV040, Am29LV040B. You can successfully flash it into any EEPROM chip that's big enough for the firmware but it will not function if the chip is not one of the three.
If you want to flash it from OS X using Wiebetech's flasher. The limitation is it only supports EEPROM chips from four brands: SST, ATMEL, PMC, WINBOND. So that's why this method is not as popular as using other flashers from PC.
I don't have a PC and I wanted an OS 9 bootable card. So I replaced the stock EEPROM chip with a Pm39LV040 (it's a PMC's product), removed R25 and bridged R24 to get 3.3V instead of the original 5V and used the Wiebetech's flasher to flash Firmtek's firmware into the card.
To their credit, I got info (about Firmtek's firmware and the limitation of Wiebetech's flasher) from these threads:
https://68kmla.org/forums/index.php?/topic/52136-i-just-ruined-my-sata-card/
https://68kmla.org/forums/index.php?/topic/45375-sil3112-flashing-sata/
PS: when I installed both the Sil3512 card with Wiebetech's firmware and the Sil3112 one with Firmtek's firmware, the Wiebetech's firmware seemed to override Firmtek's. I mean OS 9.2.2 didn't see SATA HDD connected to the card with Firmtek's firmware.